From individual actions to patterns of behavior that have built up over time, to couples in crisis it can be difficult to see a way forward past the current situation they’re facing. Hopeful Tomorrows understands the senses of fear, anxiety, anger, dread and resentment that are common during perilous relationships. However, you need to know that you are not alone and there is hope for the future of your marriage.
For every situation, Derek and Missy Irvin apply their decades of combined experience in proven psychology and faith interpretation to build common ground, establish dialogue and find a path toward a more respectful, fulfilling marriage. Even in seemingly impossible situations, there is a path forward. Through a Hopeful Tomorrows retreat weekend, you and your spouse can dive deep to truly repair damage and build a new foundation.
To those who have had their trust broken by their spouse: the heartbreak, pain, and sense of betrayal that you feel are all real. A breach of trust in the relationships is one of the most serious offenses spouses can commit toward one another, and fundamentally alters the sense of the relationship. Before moving forward, understand that it’s perfectly valid to feel anger, sorrow or a sense of emptiness. In order to outlast this crisis as a couple, it’s important for your spouse to have sincere regret, as well as a willingness to change and engage in meaningful dialogue. Derek and Missy Irvin have years of experience getting at the root of issues, helping bridge this gap and providing the tools for a stronger marriage in the future. With help from Hopeful Tomorrows, you can overcome this.
To fail within a marriage and break your spouse’s trust is unfortunate, but human. However, those who commit serious actions against their spouse in a marriage must be willing to face the consequences it has in their marriage if there is to be any hope of moving forward. You must first be willing to change, and then your partner must be willing to accompany you on that journey toward change together. Derek and Missy Irvin have decades of experience in delving to the core issues present in your marriage and providing tools to overcome this situation and come out stronger, and more united, together. Hopeful Tomorrows gives you a chance at saving your marriage.
People continue to grow, evolve and change over time, and just because a couple is married doesn’t mean they will always be growing in the same direction. However, a hallmark of a healthy marriage is accepting those differences and working to overcome them. Differing worldviews are all right in a marriage, but toxic behavior and communication breakdowns are not. Hopeful Tomorrows provides a framework to address conflicts, even seemingly impossible ones, in a mutually respectful and constructive way. Together. You can build a new foundation for a healthier marriage.Throughout 20 years of experience working with couples whose marriages have hit points of crisis, Derek and Missy Irvin have learned that there is no situation where the relationship cannot be saved and strengthened through communication and a commitment to change. With clinically-based research and scriptural reflection informing proven methods, there’s hope on the horizon for every couple facing some of the greatest challenges of their marriage.